Introducing a Bottle

Introducing a Bottle

Nile bottleEvery baby and mother is, of course, different. Some babies easily accept the bottle and may go back and forth between it and breast with no issues. Other babies take a little more convincing, especially as they get older. A baby will almost always prefer what is natural and familiar, not to mention that there can never be a perfect substitute for Momma! Many mothers, already anxious about returning to work, become frantic when they find their baby won’t take a bottle.

If you plan on returning to work or having regular periods of separation from your baby, I recommend offering your baby a bottle every few days, starting at around 4-6 weeks of age (assuming latching and feeding at the breast are well established). Mothers returning to work earlier than this time period may need to introduce the bottle a week or so before returning to work. Babies younger than two months of age are often more willing. However, introducing a bottle too early may cause confusion for a baby who is still learning to latch and remove milk from the breast. Frequent bottles early on may also interfere with establishing the mother’s milk supply.

Before introducing a bottle, learning “baby-led” bottle-feeding techniques, also known as “cue feeding” can help prevent overfeeding and reduce nipple confusion. Bottles have a fast flow and are not nearly as much work as breastfeeding. Babies can become accustomed to the ease of feeding with a bottle and start to refuse the breast. It is also very easy to overfeed a baby with a bottle. When caregivers overfeed breastfed babies, the babies nurse less when they are with their mothers which can compromise milk supply. Using baby-led bottle-feeding techniques can help prevent these issues.

If a baby is resistant to drinking from a bottle, it is most important to stay calm, keep the baby calm, and keep trying. The following suggestions may be helpful.

  • Anything normally done to calm the baby may help. Walking, swaddling, bouncing on an exercise ball, listening to music or white noise, singing, talking to baby, or even making a trip outside while offering the bottle are a few ideas. For some babies, distraction seems to help. For other babies, creating a calm, quiet atmosphere works better. A baby may even be more willing to accept a bottle when they are very sleepy.
  • If the baby becomes upset during bottle-feeding, try again later. Just like in the early days of breastfeeding, calm babies feed better.
  • Allow time for the baby to become familiar with the bottle. Let the baby see and play with the bottle a few times when it is empty and a feeding isn’t being attempted.
  • In choosing a bottle, the flow of the nipple is the most important consideration. Don’t feel the need to try multiple bottles and nipples. Trying a couple different bottles is fine, but it is best to eventually stick with one system, so the baby can become familiar with it. If a recommendation for a bottle nipple is needed, please discuss individual needs with a lactation consultant.
  • Have someone other than the mother feed the baby. Babies may be more willing to take a bottle if their preferred source of food isn’t right next to them. Sometimes it even helps for the mother to be in a different room or out of the house.
  • Hold the baby in different positions. Some babies prefer facing in, more like breastfeeding, and some prefer facing out.
  • Place the bottle nipple in warm water before offering it to the baby.
  • Offer the bottle in between expected feeding times when the baby is ready to accept food but not so hungry he/she doesn’t have patience for something new.
  • Offer the bottle during a time of day the baby is normally happiest.
  • Try to feel positive and relaxed about the use of a bottle. Babies are smart and pick up on the anxious feelings of others, especially their mothers! If a caregiver is feeling anxious about offering a bottle, the baby will also.
  • Offer small amounts of milk (1/4 -1/2 oz) at first so the baby does not become frustrated. This also prevents wasting large amounts of milk if the baby doesn’t accept the bottle.
  • Try nursing a little and then immediately offering the bottle.  If the baby takes a pacifier, try offering the pacifier for a few minutes and then the bottle.

Something different will work for every baby. A calm caregiver and a calm baby, trying a couple of these each day, will most likely lead to bottle-feeding success!

As a last resort, there are ways to feed a baby other than with a bottle during times of separation from the mother. Some babies eat very little during these times and make up for it other times. Mothers may be able to nurse their baby immediately before leaving for work and immediately after work. For mothers who work full time, nursing during a lunch hour may be an option. Babies also may begin to wake to nurse at night more frequently. In these cases, bed sharing, while following safety guidelines, may be a great option.

During separation, babies may also be fed milk with a syringe or a cup. With practice, even very young babies can learn to drink from a cup. If your baby needs alternative feeding methods, please seek the help of a lactation consultant for proper usage and individualized support.

About the Author:

Leah Segura has been working with breastfeeding parents in the MidMichigan area for over a decade. She works as an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) in private practice and volunteers through several organizations, advocating for parents in her community.

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